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aranarose

posted on Jun 6, 2007

I had my son when I was 19 years old, and struggled to get by as a single mother for the first four years of his life.  In 2001 I got married to a man who accepted my son as his own.  It's been a rough and rocky marriage, neither of us was really ready for it, but it started to really fall apart when his ex got in touch with him and he began a long-term affair.  I forgave him every time, I believe that marriage is a lifetime commitment.  He always ended up coming home to me, until a week and a half ago when he suddenly announced that he couldnt' take it anymore and he was leaving.  I was stunned.  We were getting along much better, and he had seemed much happier.

Now I'm just trying to pull myself together.  I'd been working for several months as a transcriptionist, and have started to increase my work with that.  I have a 9 year old son to care for, and we're just trying to make it day by day.

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4. grandmasteph posted on Jun 20, 2007

Hi there. I see that you had visited my aidpage. Thanks for reading all of it...I know it is a lot to read, I try to write some every day. I know what you are saying, one hopes that they meet the guy who will help them to raise their child and that person turns out to be Mr. Wrong, not Mr. Right. I too thought I was doing my eldest daughter a good turn to marry a guy who swore he was going to be "daddy". Well, his family treated her badly, and he didn't do a thing to stop it! They treated the younger daughter I had with him great, just singled MY daughter out for their nastiness. I know marriage is supposed to be a lifetime commitment but when you are treated so badly, I can't believe God wants us to go through all that, over and over again. I hope that things work out for you and your little guy. Keep smiling, it makes people wonder what you are up to. grandmasteph.

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3. soulight posted on Jun 8, 2007

Hi aranarose, It sounds like you are working hard, and you will make it ! I will keep you in my prayers. soulight

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2. aranarose posted on Jun 8, 2007

Each morning, I get up, I take my son to school, I come home, and I work. It's all I can do right now. I don't make enough, but someday I will, and if I stop, if I just disappear like I so desperately want to, that someday will never come.

seyemania posted on Jun 6, 2007... deleted on Jun 8, 2007 by aranarose

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